Exploring Your Relationship

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Perfect and exact synchronicity is not as common in relationships as you would like to think. You read about it, get tips from friends, watch it on TV, but are you doing what you’re learning? In reality, you want to do one thing while you’re partner is doing something else. To get a fulfilling life with the person you love, it’s more than just compromising. Sure, it’s good to give and receive, but you also need to imbibe a spirit of adventure. Of course, being a natural at this may not always happen naturally. Get off the narcissistic wagon and expect to have it your way. To keep peace, you need to sacrifice.

To make your relationship work, you need to establish a form of synergy. You get more intimate and connected when you see to it that you create opportunities that allow you to cater to each other’s needs. It takes work to be happy as a couple, and you need to invest a lot of yourself so you can be as affectionate as you were when you first started. Learn to open the gates of communication and talk about what you think. Try to be enthusiastic when you talk about future plans. Though some of the ideas exchanged are completely ludicrous, these catastrophes can also be a blessing in such a way that you can laugh about it in the future.

If you’re upset about something, you shouldn’t feel forced to just accept it. But before you flat-out turn them down, ask yourself why you’re so reluctant about it. Ask them why they think this way and tell then why you’re not so comfortable with the new idea. Hearing each other’s explanations will teach you both how to compromise. So, it’s time to take control. And by control, it means that you do your best to make what you have right now work for you both. Initiate kind gestures and know that your partner won’t be the only one doing everything. Show gratitude, that way, you look forward to doing these little acts of kindness just because you’re being acknowledged. When you say thank you, you loved one will eventually pick up on the habit. The key lies in wanting to please the other and being confident about what you’re about to do. If your intentions are pure, you are most likely to succeed.

Breakups often happen when one is always taking on the passive role. This isn’t an organization wherein positions are defined. A relationship is so much more dynamic than that. Explore your romantic side and let them know that they’re always on your mind. Big gestures are nice, but it’s the small ones that make the most difference. Write spontaneous notes and check on how they are, especially when you know that they have a busy day up ahead. Likewise, you should also tell them that you miss them when you don’t hear from them. Assuming that they take the bait, you also will get those middle-of-the-day calls so they can also see how you’ve been doing.

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