Poise in Parties

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You are definitely going to find yourself in the middle of an intelligent group of people and talking about a variety of subjects. As much as you want to sound smart, there may be some things that hold you back. It’s mortifying when you’re caught off guard in a conversation with someone whose name you’ve forgotten, or with people who speak jargon-filled language. When you find yourself in these sticky stitches, skip the witty excuses and politely admit that you don’t know. Apologize then ask for the person’s name again. If you’re not adept at political, economic, or scientific issues and debates, you can actually admit that you don’t know a great deal about the subject but that you’d actually love to hear more of their thoughts and opinions on the matter. Basically, you need to clear the dead air with a refreshing dose of honesty. As for work, your boss may be throwing a cocktail or dinner party at his own place. Never go to it empty-handed. A bottle of wine or a bouquet of flowers is always a safe bet. And if you’re in an office event and unsure on how long you should stay, leave only after your boss does. This signifies professionalism and respect, and people are more likely to admire you for it. If an emergency comes up or it’s urgent that you leave at a certain time, it’s polite to inform your boss about it ahead of time. And always give them a heads up when you’re on your way out. It’s also perfectly okay to ask for details when attending an office event. Aside from confirming the time and place, try to find out if there’s a dress code, and if you can bring someone to go to the event with you. When it comes to meeting new people, there are ways to make smart introductions. Making proper introductions reflects that you are a pro at these events. It is sure to impress the higher-ups and expand your network of friends and acquaintances. The common rule is to introduce the less important person first, say a colleague, to the more important person, you’re superior. Then introduce your boss with his full name and title to the person in your circle. Also tell your boss how that person is connected to you. Whether it’s a college friend or relative, it’s always easier to start a conversation when you know the background. With these tips in mind, professional functions and parties can be so much more pleasant. In fact, this could be your chance for people to notice you. The ones who could fast-forward your career will be there, and while this is no time to act like a lapdog and be obvious about your intentions, you can simply relax and play the part when the opportunity strikes. As soon as you see an opening, it’s only a matter of being yourself and showing the ones in power that you can maintain your poise and dignity when you’re faced with a group of very important people.
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